Simply Jessica

I noticed I haven't blogged in a while. This one will probably be short since I'm blogging from my phone. Have you noticed that we are all wishing for something better? And that we keep waiting for it to happen . And the we are left wondering why it hasn't happen yet? Currently for me the big questions are about gradate school and my life. I'm not so worried about other things. Mostly because I'm waiting on my life to begin or end with this graduate school mess. Think about it what are you wishing for, waiting on , & wondering about??? Hope everyone has a great night.

So it's Friday night and I have no plans. And I'm currently dying of the stomach bug. So I am sitting here watching Beastly. Cheesy I know but I love the moral of the story. That Beauty is on the inside is what matters instead of our outer appearance and I feel like that we often forget that. So hope yall have a great Friday Night.

Today's blog post is inspired by promises. Everyone in their lives have made promises, kept promises, and broken promises. ** Making Promises and Such** Everyone wants to think that they can hold to the promises that they make but the truth is sometimes we slip and we are human after all. I do my best to keep promises but I too fall short. I think the promises that you make people should be simple and realistic. Like promising your boyfriend of 2 weeks that you'll never leave, thats a heavy promise because you don't know where your lives are going. Which is way different than promising your love ones that you'll always be there. Everything in life is a promise but in order to keep promises and hold people to promises, we must work at this and help hold people accountable. So when you make promises try your best to keep them because I guarantee that people will do their best to keep their promises to you if you're reliable. * Hope everyone has a great Th

Today is Valentine's day, it is one of my least favorite holidays.  Not because I'm single just because I am a firm believer that love should be celebrated everyday. The reason being that we never how long we have until we aren't here anymore. My Uncle Derek taught me that, you should love a person more and more each day and you should try to show them that everyday in the little things. I think that the love that movies and books portray are the kinds of love that we should strive to . Another kind of love that we should strive to be like is the love of God, he loves us everyday no matter what. I think that this is something to remember everyday. Everyday should be Valentine's day. “Love should bring joy, it should grant a person peace, but here and not, it was bringing only pain.”  - Dear John This quote and the inspiration of today's blog is true because this is what love should be but in the end all it does is bring us pain because we allow people who don&#

Today's blog is inspired by Grey's Anatomy last night. It was about Valentine's day and all the trials that the couples are going thru. It also focused on Lexi who is alone right now because she wants to be with Mark but he's got a girlfriend.  I find myself this Valentine's day relating to Lexi. I'm alone but I have feelings for someone who doesn't have feelings for me. I normally relate to Christina on the show because she's hard core, focused, and just awesome. But right now Christina is mushed up over Owen. All we need sometimes is for us to realize that the love we have for people may not be perfect but it's still a form of love. I would love to be in love with someone that loves me but I'm thinking that is not ready for that yet.  I have technically "single" for about a year and half. I have learned a lot about myself. I think that I have to get over my feelings and start loving myself before I can love anyone else. And I

Today's blog is inspired by my favorite artist of all time John Mayer. For those of you that don't know me, I absolutely LOVE JOHN MAYER!! He is probably the only man that could change my views on reproduction and children. I think that his way of thinking and lyrics are beautiful. I feel like his music is looking into my soul when I listen to it. From the happiness in his music down to the heartbreak lyrics, I think he is wonderful. “Never, ever underestimate the power of 'Id Like that.”- John Mayer I realized that he has many good points, for example one of the things that I love about him is when he talks about the dangers of I'd like that... And how it can ended up biting you in the ass. Like seriously how many of us have had that happen to us? Almost all of us. I think that this type of love for me, my love  of John Mayer is unrealistic and realistic at the same time. Unrealistic in the sense that I haven't met John Mayer but I know that I love him. And

Today I have met my first exercise goal and the goal to not eat out of boredom so far... Now before my first client I'm catching up on Private Practice.  And I realized that I do secretly love NFL football in a sense. I was watching the super bowl last night and I realized that I liked most of the commercials but I think besides the David Beckham commercial I loved the M&M commercial was hilarious. Among other things:  I'm realizing that from reading a friend's blog that we need love in our lives but it doesn't have to be the romantic kind. I'm thankful for the love of my family and friends.  I learned yesterday in church that we have two types of trials.  I think that I am going to thru trials all the time now while waiting to hear from graduate school. "Unless it’s mad, extraordinary love, it’s a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life, Love shouldn’t be one of them." Hope that you all have a great Monday.

This blog post is inspired by Janet Evanovich and Stephanie Plum. These are the 10 goals I have set for my self for the month of February 1. Do not focus on not having a love life. This is not a big deal because I have no idea where my Life is going and I really don't need a complication. 2. Be happy with my body. this is a struggle for me because I'm use to being about 10-15lbs skinner. 3. Exercise because I want to exercise. Not because I need to lose weight. 4. Spend more time with my friends. Definitely going to be doing this a lot more. 5. Appreciate my job. * no matter how bad my day goes I need to be thankful that I have a job. 6. Laugh more. Whether I watch funny movies or just crack jokes I could use more laughter. 7. Not worrying about Graduate School. If its going to happen it will. 8. Read more. * I'm currently working on this one right now, I highly recommended that # series with Stephanie Plum as the main character. 9. Go to Churc

I came to the realization that my life is not where I want it it to be and I have to accept that. I think that if I don't get into graduate school that I need to redirect my life goals. So I hope the month of March is a really good month. and on a good note its Thursday and I'm going to see One for the Money and watch Grey's Anatomy tonight. And I have a longing for Boston.. Good day everyone